Here’s Why Every Relationship We Ever Have Is SO Important!


My hope is that I’ve captured this photo large enough for you to read the script on the page. I read this lesson on the importance of relationships last night in my latest favorite book, “A Return to Love” by Merrianne Williamson and it knocked my socks off! Talk about a gut check…

Its always so easy to play victim or to feel like life is happening to us that we tend to forget that when it comes to interactions, it takes two. The energy that you put out, is the very thing that you will get in any interaction. I love this passage b/c it reminds us to focus on love instead of fear, because its the only thing that truly exists; everything else is just an illusion to distract us from the face, goodness, and mercy of God. And those are the things that seperate us from our “Christ-like” ways. A Course In Miracles teaches us that we, like Jesus, were created in God’s likeness (even our thoughts mirror His when we focus on love). The only difference is that we learned to be fearful, which takes on so many negative expressions in life that we often choose wrong. To “sin” merely means to “miss the mark” or to “choose fear over love” and nothing more. In any instance we can choose to be a force of Love or a force of fear. God does not punish us for choosing wrong; for when we choose fear, we are choosing to be in pain. When we choose Love, we choose to heal and be of God’s light. God is not a punishing God despite the teachings of some religions! Instead, he’s always there waiting for us to realize how much he Loves us, and how much he needs us to love ourselves and each other in order to do his will. Thank God for His mercy on us that everyday that we awaken, we have the ability to choose again… we have the chance to choose Love and have evidence of it show up in the form of our relationships and our overall lives on Earth. Amen!

Love this book people! Go get it already and be blessed!,


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I’ve not been inspired to write as much as I have been to read these past few weeks. Not that there hasn’t been exciting things to take place for me… Like my very first official New York Fashion week, during which I had the opportunity to go backstage for some of the most amazing shows (Lela Rose and Carmen Marc Valvo to name a few). Not to mention that I stood alongside some of the most talented people in the beauty industry (Ted Gibson of What Not To Wear). Yeah, lots of exciting things have taken place in the past several weeks, yet I find myself at a crossroad. What happens when the inspirer needs inspiration?

In my case, she doesn’t write that’s for sure. Lol But I will share with you a book that I’ve been reading in the meantime and I LOVE IT!!! Marianne Williamson’s ‘A Return to Love” is by far an amazing read and one that I would absolutely share with my readers. It’s definitely thought-provoking and will transform the way you see the world if you choose to be open to Williamson’s interpretation of life, spirit, and the DIVINE. The book is based on A Course In Miracles, which is a spiritual tool based on the Bible that many consider an amazing Bible companion.

Go get it and read it! I promise you won’t be disappointed.

Meanwhile, I promise to have better content in my next post. I just wanted to at least update my readers on my current state since I haven’t written in a while.